A research in Britain showed that an average woman stare in a mirror about 38 times every day, and about 50% of women won't leave the house without consulting one. Mirrors and reflections of ourselves are everywhere. No matter where we go, if there's a reflection of ourselves, we check it. Despite our attraction to our own reflections, the majority of women hate looking in the mirror and one study found 39% say it makes them feel negative about themselves. This has prompted a trend where women are avoiding mirrors altogether.

I read an article entitled "'Mirror Fasts' Help Take the Focus Off Yourself"" written by Kate Murphy on the website www.nytimes.com. The article discussed about the new trend among female bloggers that is called "Mirror Fasting" - abstaining from looking at one's reflection for a set period of time. The women who have engaged in the mirror fast reported seeing themselves more clearly and experienced a lot more serenity. The article stated different results from the fast and some did not endure, leading to more self obsession. However, the women who had body issues were motivated to eat well and exercise.
The Mirror Fast could benefit vain women but some questions lingers my mind, "until when?" and "what will happen next after the fast?". To the women who experienced serenity, how long will that serenity last and what will happen after? Certainly the answers would differ since we all have different vanity levels and tendencies. But as I meditate on what Dr. Eric Hollander said, perhaps the case isn't about the mirror being taken off the wall, but the evil queen inside us that looks on the mirror. Shifting our perspective the same as how men look at themselves in the mirror: with more acceptance and admiration of oneself without going overboard.

I read another article entitled "Don't look now: US bloggers claim avoiding the mirror can improve your image" written by Megan Conner on the website www.theguardian.com. This second article that I read, however, suggest the opposite of "Mirror Fasting", stating that "mirror fasting" would not have a long-term positive impact on body image. The article stated that mirror fasting is throwing the issue of appearance into sharp relief in the same way that crash dieting often serves to make people obsess even more about food. Thus encouraging people to do the direct opposite of fasting by looking in the mirror and focusing on the things they like.
As stated in the article, Kate Fox, a social anthropologist at the Social Issues Research Centre in Oxford, says "We're now able to curate so much of our public image via social networking. I wonder if part of the reason this [mirror-fasting] speaks to people is because there's something appealing about giving up the ability to control our image in such a major way. When I've talked with people who quit Facebook they speak of it in terms similar to how I describe the mirror- fast: serenity, liberation, a feeling of knowing oneself and one's priorities better."
Mirror fast will not change the way we look at ourselves. Our own internal lens is the one that influences us most as our self-image continues to be shaped by what we see with our own eyes. Our sense of self is an accumulation of how others viewed us throughout our lives, and if we have issues with what we see in the mirror, avoiding the mirror will not be the solution because a good sense of self image is a developmental process that is best understood, not avoided.

Mirror fasting changes the way we see other people. Taking off the focus on ourselves gives us a new perspective to everything that surrounds us. This explains why some women experienced serenity and liberation. By choosing not to mind ourselves, we break free from our self obsession. We gain freedom from our self imprisonment. We gain better understanding to our surroundings, therefore improving our relationships and performing better at our tasks. We take a clearer view of our priorities, and all that sums up to knowing ourselves better.























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